Why a woman should never marry a virgin man

Like I said, my blog is going to be rather explicit at times so if you are afraid of the 3 letter word that begins with S, then please read no further..

Else, you are keen to find out why a woman should never marry a virgin man (thereby also saying the same for why a virgin man shouldn't remain a virgin for long) then read on!

I simply cannot emphasise enough the need for a couple to have a good sex life. Now wait, first and foremost, I am NOT encouraging promiscuity and neither am I encouraging the underaged to engage in statutory rape. If you should engage in sex, again I encourage SAFE SEX... use a condom and don't have sex with anybody who is not your serious boyfriend or your husband! If you have a fling, please don't fling with someone who you have known for less than 6 months and you should STILL use a condom!

Okay, now on with the discussion proper.

I know it sounds awfully silly to many people, but seriously.. if you must sleep with someone, please ensure that at least one of you knows what to do and which hole to poke.

I mean seriously! I've always thought that sex as a whole was a very obvious thing. You get a male organ and it goes into the female organ with ample arousal prior to the insertion to create lubrication and minimise pain while maximising pleasure.

Unfortunately, not everyone knows the importance of foreplay and then there are some guys who don't even know that they have to get hard enough before insertion and thereby cause pain to themselves and/or their partners by either forcing their way in, or because they are in the wrong hole.

One of my girl friends who recently got married told me that sex everyday was a sure killer. I later realised she meant that the PAIN was a killer, and not the physical exertion! I was like, why are you in pain?! And her reply was that the position was uncomfortable amongst other reasons. And she also said she found sex boring. Believe it or not, her hubby was so "blur" that he couldn't find the right hole!

Obviously the word "orgasm" holds no meaning for this gal pal of mine. In my personal opinion, it's simply because both parties were virgins and had absolutely no idea what to do or how to go about doing it, therefore ending up with pain, discomfort coupled with the fact that there was ample nervousness thrown into the entire experience.

Many of my girl friends simply cannot understand why I insist that my husband must be a non-virgin before he starts dating me.

My logic is simple. If he's a virgin, he has had no prior experience other than Miss Right Hand and is therefore likely to want to satisfy himself first. Then in such an event, he is going to ejaculate really really quickly and then we women will be left with feeling disgustled and unhappy. Sooner or later, sex will become a chore and a mere tool for procreation. Because of sex, quarrels and dissatisfaction is likely to result which will then put a strain on the relationship leading to perhaps adultery and infidelity since there becomes no satisfaction and is therefore nothing to look forward to.

Fantastic sex on the other hand, is helpful to the relationship because the physical intimacy and the thought of having a part of the one you love inside you or surrounding you (depending on whether you are male or female) pulls a couple closer together. Memories of multiple screaming orgasms, of being soaking wet, or tenderly moist, or incredibly horny and hard are things are that unreplacable and form the basis or platforms for additional fun ideas to explore.

And so, if your hubby or boyfriend is the type that doesn't watch pornography, then chances are, he will not learn the various techniques that can be found there, and also cannot learn how to control his breathing to stem his ejacultation and to prolong his pleasure. Likewise, he would probably not know any other position other the one that is the most natural - the missionary. Ideas such as 69, doggy or reverse cowgirl would perhaps be to "disgusting" or "disturbing" and therefore be dismissed as bearing too much resemblance to sex with a whore.

The common belief that the actors in porn films being able to last so long is being due to medication is a fallacy. It is absolutely possible that a guy can gear himself not to cum if he doesn't want to, through mind control.

So... if you want sex-tifying sex, please don't marry a virgin.

That said, I agree that people definitely do start out as virgins at some point in their life. So, therefore, be sure that at least one of you is NOT a virgin so as to do the initation proper before the marriage begins...